Showing posts with label New Hope Cemetery. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Hope Cemetery. Show all posts

Monday, May 17, 2010

Hills, Horses, and High-flying Flags: Hill Country Ramblin's

by Terry Thornton
email: hillcountrymonroecounty@gmail.com

Sunday afternoon, May 16, after an evening of heavy rains and flash flood warnings, Sweetie and I decided to drive through the Hill Country of eastern Monroe County. And we were so glad we did --- the roads were passable and the trees were all washed clean of the pollen and so brilliant in their new greens for summer. Never have I seen foliage so full on trees --- even the oaks are hanging heavy from the weight of so many leaves.

Below is a photograph of the hills --- made from Lann Cemetery Road looking east. Since I'd last driven that road, timber cutters have opened up a vista not previously noticed by me. It looked like home. (Left-click photos for a larger image)


On the return, we drove through Parham. Thanks to some kind soul or some group of kind souled folk, the flagpole at the old section of New Hope Cemetery at Parham now has a new, large flag. THANKS, someone or some group, for placing a much-needed new flag on the pole at the cemetery. It really looks good as you can see in this photograph.


We also drove Parham Store Road. I had to stop and photograph Canterbury Farm's pasture-full of miniature horses. These tiny, beautiful creatures make me wish for one to pet. Here is one photograph of the pasture of miniature horses at Canterbury Farm. [I believe that most of the adult miniature horses stand about 28 - 30 inches tall. Think large dog for sizing them.]


For more information about the miniature horses at Canterbury Farm near Parham, click this link to their website:
Hills, horses, high-flying flags --- what more could one ask for in Hill Country on a Spring afternoon? Oh, I visited my grave marker at Lann Cemetery. It is still a pre-need sort of marker. It is always a good day when I find my grave marker un-used.


Friday, May 7, 2010

BURDINE: Civil War Letters

Addison Fletcher Burdine writes to his wife, Ruth Standefer Burdine

by Terry Thornton
email: hillcountrymonroecounty@gmail.com

A few days ago, a descendant of Addison Fletcher Burdine, late of Monroe County, sent a link to transcriptions of the letters AF Burdine wrote to his wife "Rutha" Standefer Burdine during the Civil War. A member of a North Mississippi Hill County unit, Company F, Second Mississippi Cavalry, AF Burdine was a First Lieutenant.

Addison Fletcher Burdine and Ruth Standefer Burdine are buried at New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi. His father and grandfather are reported to have been buried at Burdine Cemetery near Pearce Chapel, Monroe County. Her family was one of the earliest and most influential pioneering groups in the eastern hills of Monroe County; much of the area in present-day Parham was once owned by the Standefers.

The letters AF Burdine wrote to his wife are dated May 18, 1863 -- February 17, 1865. It is not known if she was at their plantation in Itawamba County near Ironwood Bluff/Bull Mountain Creek just north of Smithville or at another home perhaps in Monroe County during this period. AF Burdine on more than one occasion writes that she might move to their older place if she would be more comfortable; the original Burdine Plantation Home was in Itawamba County; AF Burdine and Ruth Burdine also resided in Monroe County.

The transcription of the letters tells much of the Burdine Family but, more importantly, the letters reveal much about the life and times of Hill Country citizens during the turbulent Civil War. Anyone with an interest in Monroe County and Itawamba County should read the letters for an understanding of many aspects of life both on the battlefield and on the homefront. Additionally, family researchers will no doubt learn about some of their ancestors as the letters are full of local names.

Below is a listing of some of the individuals mentioned in the letters (highlighted in bold blue). The relationship of individuals listed is an on-going research project --- please feel free to post comments of correction or to post additional information about the names.

Addison Fletcher Burdine, 1823 - 1905, writer of the letters. Son of Wesley Burdine, 1800 - 1887; grandson of John Fletcher Burdine, 1772 - 1845 (both Methodist ministers; both buried at Burdine Cemetery at the historic Siloam Church grounds near Pearce Chapel, Monroe County, Mississippi.

Ruth Henrietta Standefer Burdine, 1833 - 1916, wife of Addison Fletcher Burdine. Throughout the letters she is referred to as Rutha. Daughter of William Price Standefer/Standifer; granddaughter of Luke and Mary Alice Price Standefer/Standifer. Luke and Mary Standifer are buried at New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe Country. The grave for Luke Standifer, 1767 - 1834, is marked with the notation "2d Lieutenant VA Militia Rev. War." Other Standifer burials are marked by only a pile of brick at New Hope Cemetery.

Children of AF and Rutha Burdine mentioned in the letters:
1. "Gimy" is James Shafer Burdine
2. "Larisa" is Larissa Virginia Burdine
3. "Valeria" is Charity Valeria Burdine
4. "Sweet Babe" or "Little Babe" never named in the letters is Mary Leona Burdine
Other children of AF and Ruth Burdine include
1. John Luther Burdine 1854 - 1862 buried at New Hope Cemetery, Parham
2. Ira Price Burdine
and several other children born after 1865.

Aunt Charity is Charity Standefer, Ruth Standefer Burdine's aunt. In later years, Aunt Charity lived in a cottage in the yard of AF Burdine and Ruth Standefer Burdine. Charity Standefer, 1795 - after 1870, is buried at New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County.

Armstrong individuals named within the letters require more research. The D.A. Armstrong and the Mr. Armstrong mentioned throughout the letters are probably the same individual. It would appear that AF Burdine left this individual in charge of the plantations while he was in the military. David A. Armstrong 1811 - 1889 is buried in Beans Cemetery in Itawamba County; it is not known at this time of his connection/relationship to the Burdine Family.

D. Armstrong is thought to be AF Burdine's brother-in-law, David D. Armstrong, husband to Mandane Burdine, sister to AF Burdine.

The two Armstrong men called "Dick" and "Dock" are probably A.D. Armstrong and Adolphus Armstrong, both Privates in Company F, 2nd Mississippi Cavalry --- and both may be AF Burdine's nephews.

A.D. Armstrong married J.A.M. (Julia?) Pearce in 1880 in Monroe County. A.D. Armstrong, 1846 - 1917 and Julia Armstrong, 1861 - 1946, are buried in Maxey Cemetery, Monroe County, Mississippi.

There is a military marker without dates for "A. Armstrong, Company H, Second Mississippi Cavalry CSA" at New Hope Cemetery which may be Adolphus Armstrong. More research is needed.

John Armstrong mentioned in the letters is also unknown at this time.

George Dilworth is probably Private George Dilworth, Company H, Second Mississippi Cavalry. Further, AF Burdine's sister, Melissa K. Burdine, married George Dilworth. This individual could be AF Burdine's brother-in-law.

Steavan Dilworth is probably Private Steven Dilworth, Company F, Second Mississippi Cavalry. It is not known at this time the relationship of Steven to George Dilworth.

James Burdine is probably AFBurdine's brother, James C. Burdine 1831 - 1914. James C. Burdine was a Private, Company A, 43rd Regiment Mississippi Infantry CSA.

Mary Parchman most likely is Mary Jane Burdine Parchman McCullen, sister of AF Burdine. At the time of the letters, Mary Jane Parchman was the widow of James M. Parchman who had just been killed in action at the Battle of Shiloh.

Judith Fears is Judith Victoria Burdine Fears, 1837 - 1913, sister of AF Burdine. She was married to William Johnson Fears, 1834 - 1911. She is buried at New Hope Cemetery, Parham, where she is listed as Juda V. Burdine Fears on the marker with W.J. Fears. W.J. Fears is also listed on a family marker at New Hope Cemetery for Hansford J. Fears and Peachy Ann Chism Fears as one of their eight children.

John Fears. Because he was entrusted by AF Burdine to hand-deliver one of the letters to Ruth Burdine, it is believed that John Fears was a kinsman or certainly a neighbor of the Burdines. At this writing, however, it is not clear who he is.

Barman Terel is Blair Moorman Terrell of Quincy. His son mentioned is John Thomas Terrell, 1843 - 1864, who was killed in the Civil War and is buried at Oakland Cemetery, Fulton, Georgia.

Ben Rigans is probably B.F. Riggan, First Sergeant, Company F, Second Mississippi Cavalry.

Captain Anderson is Joseph A. Anderson, the Captain of AF Budine's CSA unit.

John Hatchcock is most likely John Hathcock, Private, Company F, Second Mississippi Cavalry.

Patrick is probably Thomas J. Patrick, Corporal, Company F, Second Mississippi Cavalry.

Dick's uncle Tom Murphy may be T.A. Murphy, Private, Company C, 43rd Regiment Mississippi Infantry, CSA.

John, Lou, and her 4 youngest are probably slaves of AF Burdine.

Emery, Lister, Esex, Little Essx are probably slaves of AF Burdine.

Ed Pearce is probably the E.P Pierce, 34, farmer, as enumerated on the 1860 Monroe County Federal Census.

Lum Pearce, Old Man Wadkins, Clabe, Cleyborn, Jo, Stea, Mr. Hudson, Lorsy, Murphy, Lt. Roy, Jo Carter, Jery shot and killed, Whitecer, and nun are unknowns. More research is needed.

Two of the unknowns listed above are mentioned within interesting activities --- AF Burdine explains to Rutha Burdine to "send well to Lorsy and have a new hat made" and then mentions "Nun" regarding hides that AF Burdine left to be tanned and to get the leather (earlier he mentions to get shoes made).

"Jery shot and killed" is another name and another tragic circumstance which requires more research.

SOURCES:

Addison Fletcher Burdine by Carol Ann Burdine. Transcription of Letters. Posted at Oktibbeha County Mississippi. Copyrighted 2008 by William Price. Note: In the header of this article it is stated that Addison Fletcher Burdine and Ruth H. Standefer Burdine are buried in New Hope Cemetery, Calhoun County, Mississippi. They are buried, however, at New Hope Cemetery, Monroe County, Mississippi.

Index to Online Cemetery Records Monroe County Mississippi by Terry Thornton, Monroe County GenForum, a series of 24 articles from # 2150 through 2173, September 11, 2006.

New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County Mississippi by Terry Thornton, August 2008 (print version copyright by the New Hope Cemetery Perpetual Fund) and 2009 (digital version, Compact disc, copyright jointly by New Hope Cemetery Perpetual Fund and William T. Thornton).

Burdine Cemetery, Cemeteries of the Hill Country by Terry Thornton, Article #s 85, 86, 87, April 6, 2009.

On the Sanctification of Miss Charity Standefer by Terry Thornton, Hill Country of Monroe County, # 107, July 1, 2007, Volume One, 2009.

Charity Standefer b 1795 VA d after 1870 Monroe County MS by Terry Thornton, Monroe County GenForum, # 2580, February 18, 2007.

Miss Jessie Pierce's History of Smithville, transcribed by Terry Thornton, Hill Country of Monroe County Mississippi, Articles 756 - 762, December 12, 2008. Available on Hill Country, Volume One CD, 2009.

Mother Monroe by W. A. Evans, as reprinted by the Mother Monroe Publishing Company, Hamilton, Mississippi. 1979.
Mother Monroe Every-Name Index by Terry Thornton, Itawamba Historical Society, October 2006.

Cemetery Markings, Itawamba County by Betty Burton-Cruber.

Various online family trees from a number of contributors

Terrell Society of America, information from Don C. Terrill in email to Terry Thornton, June 12, 2007. See also Quincy Mississippi, Part 3 --- The Terrell Family and Store Ledger by Terry Thornton, Hill Country of Monroe County Mississippi, # 76, June 10, 2007.

J.T. Terrell's burial information in a letter transcription posted by Bob Franks, The Civil War: A Fallen Itawamba Soldier's Burial in Atlanta, Itawamba History Review, May 28, 2007.

Thanks to Jim Young of Missouri, great-grandson of Addison Fletcher Burdine, for sending the link to the transcription of the letters. Mr. Young is the owner of the letters.

Thanks also to the Monroe County Discussion Group (Jerry Harlow, Aberdeen, Mississippi; Mary Anna Riggan, Lackey, Mississippi; Rita Thompson, Hatley, Mississippi; Judy Sullivan, Amory, Mississippi; Bob Franks, Mantachie, Mississippi; James Alverson, Biloxi, Mississippi; and Lori Thornton, Morristown, Tennessee) for assistance in sorting through the Burdine Family.


Friday, March 5, 2010

A Hill Country Family: Gurley and Reba Gilliland: Update # 3

by Terry Thornton
with assistance from Jim Middleton of Georgia
email: hillcountrymonroecounty@gmail.com

Gurley Webster Gilliland (1892 - 1981) and Reba Faulkner Gilliland (1891 - 1968), late of Splunge, Monroe County, Mississippi, were featured earlier in this series, A Hill Country Family. The original article is here (click to read) and the followup is here (click to read). Additionally, Gurley's parents were the subject of an article posted here (click to read).

Hill Country reader Jim Middleton of Georgia recenty sent a list of Gurley and Reba GIlliland's children. Jim has Monroe and Itawmaba County roots through the Robert Jackson Middleton family --- he is a grandson of Robert and the son of Elgin Middleton --- and through the Thomas Richard "Bud" Thornton family --- he is the grandson of Bud and the son of Bud's daughter Bessie Thornton (Bud Thornton was my grandfather's brother). Jim knew the Gillilands from his schooling at Splunge and still remains friends with Travis Gilliland who lives in Wisconsin.

According to Jim, the children of Gurly and Reba Faulkner GIlliland were: sons Clinton, Roy, Travis, and Verlon; daughters Madalyn, Joan, and Leona. Only Travis survives.

Armed with Jim's list, my computer files were checked for references to the family.

G.W. Clinton Gilliland (1920 - 1962) is buried in New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe Country, Mississippi, in Section E, grave # 4. To view Clinton's grave marker, click here. Clinton, as many of you will remember, was a survivor of childhood polio which left his severely crippled. He is pictured as a young man at Brock School; the photograph may be viewed here (click to read) Clinton is the teenager far left front. Later Clinton taught at Brock School. He married Aileen Bird.

Roy Green Gilliland (1925 - 1963) is buried at New Hope Cemetery, Section E, grave # 5. To view Roy's grave marker, click here. According to Jim Middleton, Roy was killed in an automobile wreck at Splunge.

Verlon D. Gilliland (1934 - 2007) is buried at New Hope Cemetery, Section E, grave # 18. To view Verlon's grave marker, click here.

Leona Gilliand (1922 - 1923) is buried at New Hope Cemetery, Section E, grave # 17. Note that her marker spells the surname with only two "l's" To view Leona's grave marker, click here.

Madalyn and Joan Gilliland are both deceased but without the name of their spouses, I've not been able to provide any additional information,

Gurley Webster Gilliland and Reba Faulkner Gilliland are buried at New Hope Cemetery, Section E, grave # 16a and 16b. Click to view grave marker.

Mr. Gurley's parents, Greenberry Jerome Gilliland and Sarah J. Bird Gilliland, are also buried at New Hope Cemetery in Section C, grave # 92 and 93. Click here and here to view their markers.

Sources:

Children of Gurley and Reba Gilliland by Jim Middleton, email to Terry Thornton, February 25, 2010.

Gilliland Family Grave Marker Information from New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi by William Terrance Thornton, August 2008, page 13.

Gilliland Family Grave Marker photographs, New Hope Cemetery, by Terry Thornton, Fulton, Mississippi June 2008, All Rights Reserved. Photographs at Flickr account external to this blog.

For additional information see the previous articles posted about the Gilliland Families of Monroe Country at the links embedded within the article above.



Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Hill Country Story Told in Stone: THE BIBBY GRAVE MARKER AT NEW HOPE CEMETERY


by Terry Thornton
email: hillcountrymonroecounty@gmail.com

New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi, has one grave marker bearing the surname BIBBY. The marker, located in the older section of the cemetery has two names on it --- Archie Bibby and Luella Bibby. Here is a photograph of the Bibby marker.

When I photographed and inventoried New Hope Cemetery in 2008 I wondered about this marker and about the relationship of the individuals named on it. The placement of the names on the marker and the ages of those named didn't seem to fit a typical marker for husband and wife --- and I made a note to do some additional research.

Here is part of what I've found using just the census reports.

Archie Bibby, 1882 - 1900, is the son of James A. Bibby. His mother was probably Sarah Bibby. Archie was probably born in Itawamba County, Mississippi. On the 1880 census of that county, James A. and Sarah Bibby were living in a household by themselves but next door to William and Nancy Bibby. Archie is listed as the 17 year-old son of James A. Bibby on the Itawamba County census of 1900. Archie was enumerated on June 23, 1900. He died later that year.

Luella Bibby, 1870 - 1905, is Archie's aunt. Luella is listed as a 9 year-old daughter of William and Nancy Bibby on the 1880 census of Itawamba County.

Luella Bibby is listed as a 30 year-old on the 1900 Monroe County census living in the household of her brother Marion Bibby near Smithville.

On the 1900 census, Luella's mother, Nancy Bibby, is listed in the household of James A. Bibby, widower.

The 1860 census of St. Clair County, Alabama, Cross Well (or Cropwell) Post Office, lists William R. Bibby, 34, wife, Nancy B. Bibby, 25, and sons James A. Bibby, 5, Marion K. Bibby, 3, and Olley J., Bibby, 4 months.

It is believed that William Bibby and family migrated to Itawamba County Mississippi. Son James A. and his wife Sarah lived next door to William and Nancy; Sarah died leaving James with children to rear (including Archie); the widow Nancy moved into the household with her widowed son James A.; Luella, younger daughter of William and Nancy moved into the household of her brother Marion K. Bibby.

Upon the death of Archie (at about age 18) in 1900, he was buried in New Hope Cemetery at Parham. When his aunt Luella died in 1905 (at about the age of 35), she was buried beside him at New Hope. They share a joint marker.

If you have information about the Bibby Family of Monroe County, I'd most enjoy hearing from you.

Sources:

Bibby Family census information, 1860, 1880, and 1900 Federal Census of Alabama (St. Clair County) and Mississippi (Itawamba County and Monroe County) transcribed from images available at HeritageQuest Online accessed through the services of the Lee-Itawamba County Mississippi Library System.

Bibby Grave Marker photograph, New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi, by Terry Thornton, Fulton, Mississippi, June 2008.


Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Hill Country Stories Told In Stone: SHELBY RAY PARHAM Story Continues

by Terry Thornton
email: hillcountrymonroecounty@gmail.com

Almost a year ago, I posted a brief "Story Told in Stone" about Shelby Ray Parham. The article contained primarily just the following photograph of his memorial marker at New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi. That article today is in the archival materials on the CD, Terry Thornton's Cemeteries of the Hill Country, # 16, November 10, 2008.



In that first article I stated that I hoped to write more about Shelby Ray Parham --- a draft article was prepared and I've waited for replies to inquiries sent. I've decided to present what information I've found --- and encourage anyone with information which will help to "write" the
story of Shelby Ray Parham to either post a comment below or to send an email.

SHELBY RAY PARHAM was the son of IRA JACKSON PARHAM [1890 - 1946] and PATRA CORNELIA BRASFIELD PARHAM [1895 - 1984].

The only available census report I've found upon which Shelby Ray Parham is listed is the 1930 Federal Census of Monroe County, Mississippi. There in Beat 1, along the Smithville and Hatley Road, are found these individuals:
Ira J. Parham, head of household, 40
Patra Parham, wife, 35
R. Arnold Parham, son, 16
R. Frances Parham, son 14
Shelby R. Parham, son 9
Josephine Parham, daughter 7
P. Allan Parham, son, 3 5/12th

I
ra and Patra Parham had seven children according to Marjorie Parham Hailey, In A Pear Tree (a book about the Parham family). Those children were:
Rupert Arnold Parham [1913 - 1979]
Riley Francis Parham [1913 - 1978]
Kathlyn Parham [1917 - 1920]
Shelby Ray Parham [1920 - 1944]
Josephine Parham (Shelton) [1922 - ]
Phillip Allen Parham [1926 - ]
John Harold Parham [1930 - 1986]

Ira, Patra, Riley Francis, Kathlyn, and Shelby Ray Parham are buried at New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi.

There in that peaceful rural cemetery, Shelby Ray Parham's memorial stone reads simply
"Shelby Parham 1920 - 1944 Lost In Plane Crash Blue Ridge Mts."

In Hailey's book is found the entry, "Shelby Ray Parham. b 21 February 1920, Monroe Co. MS, d 12 Aug 1944 Worked at Knoxville Atomic Bomb Plant. Lost in plane crash over Great Smokies. Hunters found plane wing 2 1/2 years later. A memorial stone placed in New Hope Cemetery."

In an Introduction As An Aviation Cadet (Biographical Notes Relating to The Earl E. Myers Story) by Earl Myers and Chuck Stone is this reference which places Mr. Parham as a Flight Instructor from Shelby, North Carolina. Here is the direct quote and photograph:
"We received 10 hours dual in a Piper Cub. My Flight Instructor was Shelby R. Parham, certificate #28056, from Shelby N.C. I have a picture of him in my first log book with 10 hours of dual logged, one of eight log books and the first one that I accumulated in my flying career. He was dressed in a coat and tie, the same as every instruction ride, and sitting in the rear of a Cub at the Charlotte, N.C. Airport at Cannon Aircraft Sales and Service. The contract provided for the Cubs used in the training."

"He was a fine instructor, was very strict with his students, and very thorough with all five of us. He was a gentleman and it was an honor to be one of his students. Some of our classmates had wished that they had him and wanted to know how we were so lucky. My first logged flight was 9-7-1943 and the last flight at Charlotte was 9-26-1943."

It appears from this statement that in 1943, Mr. Parham was a flight instructor at Charlotte NC --- and that he was the flight instructor for military pilots looking for that first flight rating to get them into military fight school.

It is not known if the photograph included within this reference is that of students with Shelby Ray Parham; more research is needed.

Inquiries about Mr. Parham were sent to the library which archives the newspaper from Cleveland County, Tennessee. No reply about the circumstances of the airplane crash or about Mr. Parham has been received. Updates to the Shelby Ray Parham Story Told on Paper will be made as more information is obtained.

If you have information about Shelby Ray Parham, please consider sharing it with the readers of Hill Country.

SOURCES:

Hailey, Marjorie Parham. In A Pear Tree: The Story of Some of the Parhams in That Tree. Edinburg, Texas: New Santander Press, 1987. Pages 322 - 23.

Parham Family Census Information, 1930 Federal Census, Monroe County, Mississippi. Information transcribed from images available at Ancestry.com.

Shelby Ray Parham grave marker. New Hope Cemetery, Parham, Monroe County, Mississippi. Photograph by Terry Thornton, 2008.